📘 Introduction – The Questions Every New Owner Asks
Starting with a sex doll brings excitement… and a lot of questions. From DollForum and Reddit r/SexDolls, these are the 10 most common questions beginners ask over and over. Here are clear, no-nonsense answers based on real owner experiences.
1. TPE or Silicone – Which Material Should a Beginner Choose?
Short answer: Start with TPE if budget is tight and you want maximum softness. Choose silicone if you can spend more and want easier long-term care.
Quick comparison
TPE: softer, bouncier, cheaper ($1,200–$2,800), but needs regular powdering and can stain/tear more easily
Silicone: firmer, no oil bleed, stain-resistant, longer lifespan (8–15+ years), easier cleaning, but costs more ($2,500–$6,000+)
Beginner recommendation: Most start with mid-range TPE full body or high-quality TPE torso to test the waters without huge investment.
2. How Realistic Do Sex Dolls Actually Feel?
Short answer: Very realistic – especially premium models – but they are still dolls, not living people.
What owners say
Skin texture and weight feel surprisingly lifelike
Internal textures (especially dual-layer TPE/silicone) are the biggest surprise
Joints and posing improve dramatically in 2024–2026 models
Temperature play (heating) makes a huge difference
Reality check: The emotional/psychological realism depends more on you than the doll.
3. How Do I Clean It After Use? Is It Hard?
Short answer: Not hard if you do it right after use – 10–30 minutes depending on material.
Quick routine
Rinse exterior with lukewarm water + mild soap
Flush internal channels with irrigator/shower hose
Dry thoroughly (especially TPE – use sticks/fan)
Powder TPE skin; silicone needs nothing extra
Beginner tip: Clean immediately – waiting makes everything 3× harder.
4. How Do I Store It When Not in Use?
Short answer: Cool, dry, dark place – hanging or lying flat, never tightly folded.
Best options
Hanging rack or flight case (ideal for full body)
Large drawer/box for torsos
Remove wig and store on stand
Light dust cover or breathable bag
Common mistake: Leaving in suitcase long-term → pressure marks and creases.
5. Will It Stain from Clothes or Makeup?
Short answer: Yes, especially TPE – dark clothing and makeup transfer easily.
Prevention & fixes
Use light-colored or pre-washed clothes
Remove makeup/oil-based products immediately
TPE stains: acne cream (benzoyl peroxide) overnight
Silicone: much more stain-resistant
Pro tip: Keep a “doll-only” wardrobe to minimize risk.
6. How Long Does a Sex Doll Last with Regular Use?
Short answer: TPE: 3–6 years with good care; Silicone: 8–15+ years.
Factors that matter
Cleaning & powdering frequency (TPE)
Avoiding over-stretching joints
Proper storage (no tight folding)
Daily vs occasional use
Many 5+ year old silicone dolls still look almost new with basic care.
7. Is It Easy to Move and Pose?
Short answer: 2024–2026 models with EVO/yoga skeletons are very posable – but still heavy.
Quick facts
Average full body: 30–42 kg (66–92 lbs)
Torsos: 12–28 kg – much easier to handle
Good joints allow most positions without force
Beginner advice: Start with torso if strength/mobility is a concern.
8. Can I Use It Every Day? Is That Normal?
Short answer: Yes – many owners do. It’s very common.
What to expect
TPE needs more frequent powdering/cleaning
Silicone handles daily use with minimal extra effort
Emotional/psychological aspect: some find it very fulfilling, others prefer occasional use
Community norm: Daily or near-daily use is completely normal for many.
9. How Discreet Is Shipping and Ownership?
Short answer: Very discreet – plain boxes, no external markings.
Real facts
Most reputable sellers ship in unmarked brown/white boxes
No company name/logo on package
Delivery to private address or pickup point
Ownership: no one knows unless you tell them
Tip: Choose sellers with good reputation for privacy (EU/US warehouses best).
10. What’s the Biggest Mistake New Owners Make?
Short answer: Buying the cheapest possible doll from unknown sellers.
Most common regrets
Poor quality TPE (strong odor, bad seams)
Unrealistic expectations about weight/posing
Skipping proper cleaning/storage → mold/tears
Not researching brands → bad skeleton/joints
Best advice: Spend a bit more on a reputable mid-range brand – you’ll thank yourself later.
⭐ Conclusion – You’ve Got This
These 10 questions cover 90 % of what beginners worry about. The hobby is very welcoming – most owners are happy to help newcomers.
Start small, learn as you go, and don’t stress perfection right away. Your first sex doll will teach you more than any guide ever could.
Ready to begin your journey?
